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is orrible and rude to me, we have 5 kids and I am 26 years old, he is 49. Since having kids i have put on a bit of weight and now weigh 19 stone, he is about 11 stone he says having sex with me is like getting on a bouncy castle. he never complained before but i think he is seeing someone else. i am very upset and want a divorce how do i do it?

Perhaps its time to take control of your life. It seems your problems are not just with your husband perhaps you ought to ask yourself why he is rude and horrible to you?

What makes you think he is seeing someone else? You seem to have some issues with your self confidence. Have you tried tackling your weight problem. Its relatively easy to get a divorce but you have to think about what you would do after the divorce and whether you would be any happier.

So its my fault is that wht you are saying he is sleeping with someone else whilst i look after his kids and it s my fault, lot of help and support you are.

But you still haven't said that he is actually cheating just that you think he is.

ARE YOU STUPID? His wallet has condoms in it, we don't use them, I want another baby, what do you think he is using them for ? to entertain the neighbours, with your track record i am sureyou know what one is for

How can i work with all them kids, and the most important job is being a mum not some fancy office job and put the kids with a stranger, though doubt you would understand that, and for your information i dont like trisha, good morning and loose woman i watch, but probably too classy for the likes of you

Like I said in the first thread. Take some control in your life. Stop scrounging and whingeing

i am in control and will be in that divcorce court

Scrounger!

Ok guys, any chance we could get back to anon's original topic? This is getting a bit heated and not helping anyone.

At least I work and no when to stop having kids. I bet your just bored with your husband cos he's too old. Served his purpose has he? or were the kids from another man. Wouldn't surprise me!

Some people just don't want to take responsibility for their actions.

How dare you suggest the kids were from elsewhere, i have been with my husband since i was 14 our eldest is 11 and they all have the same father thankyou very much. how many kids have you got then violet (stupid flowery name for a cow like you), not as many as you would like i bet, did you run out of fathers?