Well I'm certainly going to try Giz
The eldest one is 20 and he went in to see her doctor when she was in the hospice when she had the big problems with her legs a few months ago. He was told everything but unfortunately, he won't tell anyone what he's been told - even her mum - I totally disagree with this as he's going to have major problems when he's older IMO. Unfortunately, he's away as he's joined the army so I'm not sure whether I will see him before my mate goes to meet her maker
I'm going to speak to my mate about her will when I go and see her.
She is very fortune in some respects as her sister is loaded so tries to get her away for a weekend in a nice lavish hotel which is fine but I really don't think she gets the emotional support from her sis that I would be able to give her.
Life storybook - I'm on with thanks hun. I started it when I first found out that the cancer was terminal - I only found that out because she sent a text to her son and sent it to me by mistake - not a good idea because I was at work at the time. We have a few mutual friends but none of them rang me to tell me what was really going on. This is the trouble when you move away from your home town and don't keep in touch.
I can't tell you how much I'm looking forward to seeing her
I'm not sure whether I will show her this thread when I get to see her although I'm tempted as it may make her realise that the written word can have more impact than a face to face confronatation
